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Showing posts with label plan your professional development. Show all posts
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Wednesday, 20 April 2011

Why Should I Plan?

There are many reasons why you should plan your professional development, not least because if you don’t you won’t appreciate your achievements and will not be able to track your progress. Here we explore further the reasons why it is worthwhile investing a little time now in order to reap the benefits of thorough planning later.

Understanding future needs

Few people are lucky enough to start life knowing what they want to be when they grow up, and sticking to that idea throughout their education and subsequent career. Even fewer are able to follow a precisely defined career path where development and promotion occur at pre-determined stages.
In the 21st century professionals are responsible for their own careers and have to make decisions about where they want to go next. They must be able to adapt to sudden career changes, whether these result from new opportunities or redundancy. This may seem to rule out the need to plan where you want your career to take you, but in reality strengthens the case for assessing your future needs and planning how to gain the competence you will need to meet them.
In terms of your future needs, you should also give some thought to the type of support which might help you to achieve your plan. For example, will you require a mentor at some stage? If so, when, and where would you look for one? What other types of supporters would you want? If you are thinking of gaining NVQs you will need to identify assessors and verifiers. You may also need financial support and/or flexible working arrangements if you are planning to study for a further qualification.
More about Gaining Support.

Business needs

Think about the business you are working in: What is the likely future demand for your product? Who are your competitors? What other threats face your business? What is the research and development department working on, and how might this affect you? What are the likely opportunities for promotion or a sideways move within the company? Companies are subject to mergers, takeovers, closure and strategic changes in output or location; all of which provide career opportunities and threats.
With the pace of technical change, businesses need those who are familiar with the latest technology, or have the capability to bring themselves up to speed very quickly. Keeping an eye on the technical press, attending lectures and talking to customers and suppliers will help you to identify the technical changes most likely to affect your business. Acquiring the relevant skills will give you a head start in meeting the challenge of change when it comes. Alternatively, you may find that a new technology is of particular interest, and want to create the opportunity for a move in that direction.
Soft skills, transferable skills and interpersonal skills are all terms which have come into common usage in recent years. Surveys of employers frequently indicate that these skills are often in short supply, especially among technical professionals and new entrants to the workforce. You will need to have or gain these skills simply to function in most jobs, but if you want to progress to senior levels you will have to develop them to a high level. These types of skills also tend to be very generic - at a superficial level the requirements may seem to differ according to an employer’s culture, but the basic principles still apply. So you need to plan to acquire and enhance a whole range of these skills.
Your employer may have formal mechanisms in place to identify business needs and corresponding development plans for employees. You may find yourself being groomed for a specific role, or part of a cohort expected to progress to a certain level within the organisation. If this is the case, your employer will identify the skills you need to meet their objectives, and may have a structured development scheme to enable you to acquire them over a certain timescale. If your employer has such a scheme but you are not on it, you may want to find out how to get involved.

Career/Job goals

You will need to think about a whole host of factors. Most importantly, your aspirations, the needs of your current and potential future employer, and your personal goals. Where do you want to be this year, next year or in five years time? Doing the same job? Promoted within your company? Or somewhere completely different? You will greatly improve your chances of creating or taking advantage of career opportunities if you predict these needs, and acquire the corresponding skills in a structured manner.
You may have some very clear ideas about what you want to do next. If this is the case, you should be able to gather information to help you analyse the skill requirements and identify any shortfall in your existing skill set. Talking to the person doing the job, looking at the job description and person specification, and talking it through with a mentor, will all help you to gain an understanding of what is required.
On a broader level, you may want to start with a clean sheet of paper and identify what you could or would like to do if you had a career change. For this you may need to do some fairly broad reading. Picking up professional and in-house publications could give you ideas for different disciplines or fields of activity which might appeal to you, or of where opportunities are increasing or declining. From there, getting in touch with someone working in that field is the most likely way of getting a real understanding of the nature of the work, the industry and the skills required. The Sector Skills Councils (formerly National Training Organisations) publish "skills foresight" documents which give a good insight into the needs of particular industries. Specialist libraries, such as those run by institutions, are a good source of information. Your institution may also have special interest groups, or a careers service, who can put you in touch with employers or individuals.

Personal goals

An employer-led scheme is great if your aspirations coincide with what your company wants from you, although you may still be expected to influence the development plan. However, you may have different ideas, and need to take steps to ensure you achieve your own objectives.
On a more personal level, you need to consider your broader goals and aspirations. While these may range from being in a job this time next year to becoming the Chairman of the Board, they will also encompass the broader aspects of your life such as family, community and other interests. Your personal goals may include planning a family, taking time out to travel, or becoming President of your institution! So how much time do you have, to undertake career-related development outside the workplace? Will non-work activities affect your career path? Remember that these activities can provide you with valuable experience, skills and attitudes which may support and enhance your competence in the workplace.
Personal goals could also include the decision to seek formal assessment or recognition of your achievements through gaining an academic qualification or professional registration. You will need to find out whether your employer would be willing to support you in this. If the answer is no, and you are still determined to get the qualification you will have to make some tough decisions about how you will do it, and what the true value of it will be to you. If you want the qualifications in order to meet professional registration requirements, you will also need to think about how you can create a self-managed scheme, and who might be willing to act as a mentor or assessor for you.
http://www.pd-how2.org/2_2.htm

The Career Planning Process


What is Career Planning?

Career planning is a lifelong process, which includes choosing an occupation, getting a job, growing in our job, possibly changing careers, and eventually retiring. The Career Planning Site offers coverage of all these areas. This article will focus on career choice and the process one goes through in selecting an occupation. This may happen once in our lifetimes, but it is more likely to happen several times as we first define and then redefine ourselves and our goals.

Career Planning: A Four Step Process

The career planning process is comprised of four steps. One might seek the services of a career development professional to help facilitate his or her journey through this process. Whether or not you choose to work with a professional, or work through the process on your own is less important than the amount of thought and energy you put into choosing a career.

Self

Gather information about yourself (self assessment)
  • Interests
  • Values
  • Roles
  • Skills/Aptitudes
  • Preferred Environments
  • Developmental Needs
  • Your realities

Options

Get more specific information after you narrow down your options by:

Match

During this phase of the process, you will:
  • Identify possible occupations
  • Evaluate these occupations
  • Explore alternatives
  • Choose both a short term and a long term option

Action

You will develop the steps you need to take in order to reach your goal, for example:
http://careerplanning.about.com/cs/choosingacareer/a/cp_process.htm

Starting a Professional Career

Owning vs. Working for Others

Whether you want to buy your own practice, or will start your career working for others, you need to make early decisions with care. Ask yourself some pertinent questions.

  • What type of practice do you want to work in, and where do you want to work (geographically, right down to the location)?
  • Do you want to be your own boss or do you prefer to be part of a team?
  • What sort of people do you want to work with?
  • Do you prefer working with people of your own age, or do you appreciate the knowledge older people can impart? Should the people you work with share your personal ideals or do you prefer to work with others who may think very differently from you?
  • Exactly what do you hope to achieve in your professional career?
  • Do you want to be a leader, or do you prefer to work in the background and let others do the leading?
  • How much time do you want to spend on the administration of your business?
Now look at the two options:
1. In solo practice:
  • Your initial financial investment will be high
  • You are wholly responsible for the success or failure of your business
  • you determine your hours and the size of your practice
  • you make all decisions on equipment and staffing
  • you control your own expenses
  • you have little opportunity for in-office consulting with colleagues
  • you lose money when you take time off
  • YOU ARE YOUR OWN BOSS
2. When working with others:
  • your initial financial investment may be relatively low
  • you have to put in less administrative time
  • in-office consulting with colleagues is easily available
  • expenses are shared
  • you may have less control over the size of your practice
  • you may have less control over the hours you work
  • you may not initially see the type of client you prefer to work with
  • you may have little control over your staffing arrangements
  • politics may interfere with the business flow
  • the successes and failures of business are shared
If you are going to be joining an existing group, you will need to know:
  • what size group you want to join
  • what type of clientele you prefer to work with
  • whether you want to build your practice quickly or work into it gradually
  • how compatible your ideals and personality need to be with the group
  • how much staff time you will need - in other words, do you prefer to delegate to other, or do you prefer to do a lot of the groundwork yourself
  • how much space you want and need to practice as you prefer
  • how much revenue you want to achieve in the first year
  • what is the buy-in feature (if any)?
If you are going to buy/take over an existing practice, consider hiring a financial management consultant experienced in practice evaluations to assess the practices you are interested in. A consultant can help you negotiate a fair price once you have considered the following:
  • evaluate the practice profile carefully
  • make sure the practice client mix suits your interests
  • assess the current revenue stream
  • assess the reputation (goodwill) of the practice
  • find out how you will be introduced to existing clients
  • evaluate level of staff efficiency if you will be taking over existing staff
  • appraise possible changes to design, etc., and relevant costs
  • check that location of current practice fits your future plans
  • compare current short/long term plans for practice with your plans
  • assess whether this is the best opportunity for you in terms of your career.
http://www.rbcroyalbank.com/RBC:olbopdaref/professionals/owning-vs-working-for-others.html

Wednesday, 19 January 2011

Enterprise Planning: Linking Strategies, Plans, and Resources for Competitive Advantage

Source: Oracle | Hyperion
Learn more about Oracle | Hyperion


White Paper Description:

Planning is a crucial management discipline that enables organizations to optimally allocate their finite resources, and achieve maximum potential. The more intelligently these resources are allocated in response to changing conditions and objectives, the better the business will perform. Indeed, improved business performance is why so many companies are aggressively evolving their planning processes and embracing planning best practices.

http://whitepapers.technologyevaluation.com/view_document/6487/enterprise-planning-linking-strategies-plans-and-resources-for-competitive-advantage.html

Monday, 27 December 2010

Evaluate Yourself and Take Paid Surveys

Now, settle down and keep reading; this is not an attempt to say that you're not heading down the correct path. But, everyone might stand to make some positive changes in their life so as spend more time with family, portion your opinions and feel prefer you are being heard, and make a few extra bucks for a rainy day. Participating in purchased surveys is a cracking means to get a good begin on all these worthwhile goals.

If you are looking to spend more time with your family, having purchased surveys according to the time agenda that you select doesn't tie you down as much as punching a time clock. You pick and pick out the work you want to do - if you child would rather go to the park for a couple hrs, you have the plasticity to say "yes, allow's go!" and get back to your online survey later. Additionally, there are family-oriented surveys and mystery shops that your child or teen can participate in along with you, lending you a bang-up opportunity to spend quality time together while generating money.

Other worthwhile benefit of participating in market investigation projects such as on the web surveys, focus radicals and secret buying is that it validates your opinions. Everyone wants to feel that what they have to tell is fundamental and that customer want to listen. You improved consider that executives at major corporations are more that happy to hear your comments and concerns about their products and employment. When you take surveys, your occurrences as a consumer will be valued in many ways, especially as a means for company's to improved meet the needs of their target markets.

And last but not least, generating a little supplemental income is a cracking goal, however you evaluate it! It is not thoughts to consider that you can make a full-time gig out of having paid surveys; you can count on earning a few excess cash for socking back or spending however you delight. College students, stay-at-dwelling moms, retirees and folks just hunting for additional cash can sign up with online surveys sites and get surveys on a number of intriguing areas. Plus, there is no evaluating the bottom line - your wallet will thank you and you might just feel happier and more well-rounded.


Read more: http://www.articlesbase.com/ask-an-expert-articles/evaluate-yourself-and-take-paid-surveys-3674571.html#ixzz19J461OqS
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Future of Open Source Survey 2010

Like last year, I'll be attending the Open Source Business Conference (OSBC) next month, on March 17-18 in San Francisco. Also like last year, I will participate in a panel discussion led by Michael Skok (Partner at North Bridge, Acquia Board Member and personal friend). This year, I'll be in a panel with Larry Augustin (CEO of SugarCRM, VA Linux, SourceForge), Jim Whitehurst (CEO of RedHat) and Tim Yeaton (CEO of Black Duck Software) to discuss the future of Open Source businesses. The panel discussion will draw on the 2010 Future of Open Source survey so make sure to weigh in and provide your perspective on a number of important Open Source business questions. Take the Future of Open Source Survey 2010. As a reference, here are the 2009 and 2008 results.
We've also built a Drupal Gardens site to promote the survey, share articles on the Future of Open Source and facilitate ongoing discussion on the topic: http://futureofopensource.drupalgardens.com/. There is also a Future of Open Source Survey twitter account that you can follow for updates.
OSBC OSBC 2009 panel discussion. From left to right: me, Ron Hovsepian (President and CEO of Novell), John Lilly (CEO of Mozilla), Marten Mickos (CEO of MySQL). For more information about OSBC 2009
http://buytaert.net/future-of-open-source-survey-2010

Monday, 22 November 2010

Tips for Better Team Work?

Have you ever wondered how some work groups exhibit effective team work and others remain dysfunctional for the life of the team? Effective team work is both profoundly simple and difficult at the same time. The factors that affect success in team work occur both within the team itself and in the work environment in which the team must function.
These ten tips describe the environment that must occur within the team for successful team work to take place. Successful team work is the cornerstone for creating functioning, contributing teams.

Keys to Successful Team Work

  • The team understands the goals and is committed to attaining them. This clear direction and agreement on mission and purpose is essential for effective team work.
  • The team creates an environment in which people are comfortable taking reasonable risks in communicating, advocating positions, and taking action

  • Communication is open, honest, and respectful. People feel free to express their thoughts, opinions, and potential solutions to problems. People feel as if they are heard out and listened to by team members who are attempting to understand.







  • Team members have a strong sense of belonging to the group. They experience a deep commitment to the group’s decisions and actions.







  • Team members are viewed as unique people with irreplaceable experiences, points of view, knowledge, and opinions to contribute.







  • Creativity, innovation, and different viewpoints are expected and encouraged.







  • The team is able to constantly examine itself and continuously improve its processes, practices, and the interaction of team members. The team openly discusses team norms and what may be hindering its ability to move forward and progress in areas of effort, talent, and strategy.







  • The team has agreed upon procedures for diagnosing, analyzing, and resolving team work problems and conflicts. The team does not support member personality conflicts and clashes nor do team members pick sides in a disagreement. Rather, members work towards mutual resolution.







  • Participative leadership is practiced in leading meetings, assigning tasks, recording decisions and commitments, assessing progress, holding team members accountable, and providing direction for the team.







  • Members of the team make high quality decisions together and have the support and commitment of the group to carry out the decisions made.



  • If a team can get these ten factors right, success and a rewarding sense of team work will follow.
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    Thursday, 21 October 2010

    "5 Sure-Fire Ways to Answer Challenging Questions During Your Presentation!"

    There's no getting around it: The moment you bound onto the platform or stage your credibility is at stake. And one way to cement your credibility is to master the art of Q & A (short for Questions and Answers)
    Look at how Q & A's are done on the political battlefields. Remember the Hillary and Obama debates? These seasoned political pros knew at any time “one slip up” can hurt them in the eyes of their audience (in the studio and at home watching.)
    It a nutshell: How you respond to an audience member's Q & A can undoubtedly haunt or help your career for a long time.
    The beauty of Q & A’s is they help bond you with your audience. I actually love the improvisational aspect of it along with the feeling of being in the moment with my audience. Of course, you might NOT feel the same. However, delivering a powerful and content-rich Q & A is a necessary evil. And you’re going to have to deal with it as best you can if you want to be a master communicator!
    You goal during Q & A is to stay centered, focus – keep your confidence and composure that you are prepared for this particular session.
    Here are five quick guidelines to succeed!
    1. Repeat the question: You might have heard the question… the folks in the vicinity of the “asker” might’ve heard it, but what about the rest of the room? Always repeat the question. Doing so allows you time to ponder a succinct answer
    2. No matter what the question is… give the person who asked it, respect. No matter how ludicrous the question is (and if the answer is obvious) make eye contact with the audience member and answer it. Then thank the audience member for taking the time in asking it.
    3. Make it brief – Give as quick a response as you can. You DON’T want to turn this into another speech. If it needs a longer answer, do it. But try to make it shorter.
    4. When answering a question from the audience and if you can’t see or don’t know their name… never point with your finger. Instead, gesture with your palm down “inoffensive” manner.
    5. CHEAT. Want to know the questions beforehand? Simply hand out cards to your audience (before the break) Then you can prepare your answers and respond comfortably.
    If you are every caught off-guard and don't know and answer to a question… don't lie and make up one. Say to the audience member (and all the listeners) that you will exchange e-mail addresses with that person at the end of the program, do some research and get them the correct answer. This is a face saving and self-effacing technique that leaves you in good graces with your audience and will again, cement your credibility with them.
    By Peter "The Reinvention Guy" Fogel

    Expecting Excellence - A Key to Effective Leadership

    The idea of expecting excellence isn't new, nor is the premise that every leader should expect excellence from his or her team. But just like everything a leader says and does, it's not so much a matter of "what" he or she does as much as it is about "how" they do what they do.
    There's a significant difference between establishing an environment where excellence is expected and one where excellence is demanded. In the first case, not only does the culture of the organization establish the expectations for excellence, but the actions of your entire team will essentially "put pressure" on everyone to perform up to the standards of excellence expected.
    In the second case, where excellence is demanded, "pressure" from you is the only dynamic at play. And you know how most people react to direct pressure - they push back. And push-back usually comes in the form of either passive-aggressive behavior or by working just hard enough to keep from being fired.
    So let's discuss how to go about establishing an environment where excellence is expected. There are two components to this equation. The first is defining what excellence means to you and your organization, and the second is the design of that environment.
    How we define excellence is governed by the standards and values we embrace. Standards determine the level of quality we desire. They govern quality of service and quality of product. There are many levels of quality, and only you and your team can determine which level you want to be known for. Excellent quality does not necessarily mean the very best that can be produced. Let me offer a couple of real-world, practical examples. The first comes from the restaurant business and the other from the automotive industry.
    If you go to a fast food restaurant, excellent service means delivering the customer's food within a very short time - typically 2-4 minutes. Much longer than that, and most customers will feel that the service is less than excellent. In contrast, if you dined in an expensive, gourmet restaurant and your food came out within 2-4 minutes, you'd no doubt feel rushed and consider the service to be poor.
    The other example comes from the automobile industry. (I'm not promoting or judging any make of car here just offering an example that most everyone can relate to.) If every automobile were made to the very highest of standards, then there would be only Rolls Royce, Audi and Mercedes Benz. There would be no room for Chevrolet, Ford or Kia.
    The appropriate level of quality that determines the standards by which you and your organization are governed is determined by the expectations of your market. This doesn't preclude setting a standard which exceeds the expectations of that market. It just acts as a benchmark by which your performance is measured.
    The values which create an environment of excellence govern how we do what we do and are - for the most part - concerned with how we relate to others. Values that may immediately come to mind are integrity, honesty, respect, and fairness. However, there are many other possible values that you and your team may want to include on your list in order to elicit excellence. Here are some additional values to help you get started: Authenticity, Family, Kindness, Commitment, Loyalty, Compassion, Happiness, Empathy, Health, and Humor.
    Once you have defined what excellence means to you and your organization by clearly setting an expected level of standards for performance along with the values which determine how you, your team and your organization carry out the work you do, you will be in a position to design an environment which elicits excellence.
    Designing an environment which elicits excellence is about establishing an organizational "culture". A well-established culture will embody and reflect the standards and values you and your organization have agreed upon.
    So… what constitutes "culture" and how do you establish it? Culture is established by how well you and your team live by and communicate the values and standards you've identified. It's not so much "whether" you and your team agree to these things, as it is about how consistently and to what degree these values and standards are adhered to. Doing this well will create the proper initial expectations with new team members, will install a sense of pride throughout the organizations, and will fill your organization with integrity - causing the majority of your team to act, think, and speak in a certain way.
    Consistency in the effort is all important. The consequences are unfortunate if you and your team profess to embrace and embody a certain culture, but live by it in an inconsistent manner, tolerate behaviors by others which are at odds with the culture, or worse, act in a manner at odds with the so-called "culture". There is nothing more demoralizing than someone hearing about and believing in a certain culture, only to see a leader speak and act in an inconsistent manner. It absolutely undermines the integrity of the leader and the organization as a whole.
    The bottom line is that demanding excellence of your team will only produce modest and inconsistent results. Alternatively, putting in the effort up front to design, implement, and live by a culture of excellence will produce long-term, self-sustaining results.
    By Michael Beck

    Tuesday, 5 October 2010

    Becoming the Best Listener You Can Be

    Did you know there are Six Messages in any conversation?
    • What you Mean to say
    • What you Actually say
    • What the other person Hears
    • What the other person Thinks he/she hears
    • What the other person Says
    • What you Think the other person says
    No wonder we have communication problems. To make matters even worse, did you know that our mind thinks four times faster than the average person can speak? That means that even when we try to listen, our minds are going many miles an hour in another direction.
    There are ways that we can compensate for these communication challenges. One way is through good feedback. Feedback will help us understand these multiple messages and will help us focus our thinking minds.
    Let's look at some of the feedback issues we face. First, who is responsible for the feedback? The person sending the message or the person receiving the message? Unfortunately there is no clear answer to this question. In fact, no one knows who is responsible for feedback. As a result, too often, no one does it.
    One lesson for us is whether we are the sender or the receiver, we are responsible for feedback. If you are the sender, you must solicit feedback from your receiver. If you are the receiver you must give feedback to your sender.
    To further complicate matters, as most of us know, two-way communication means that we move from sender to receiver and vice versa many times in any given conversation.
    How can we Solicit feedback:
    1.Watch the receiver's nonverbal behaviors. When you see a frown or a sign that the person might not understand, ask them if they have questions.
    2.Once you have sent your message, ask the person what his or her next steps will be. From this information, determine if the message was clearly understood.
    3.Listen to your receiver's response. Does it make sense based on what you said? Perhaps their fast-thinking mind missed the main point.
    4.Ask powerful questions that relate to what you just said.
    How to Give Feedback
    1.Express what you heard the speaker say in our own words.
    2.Ask questions related to what the speaker said to be sure you heard him or her correctly.
    3.Attend to the speaker's nonverbal behavior. Pay attention to where the speaker gives visual and vocal emphasis and then respond with questions to determine the meaning of that emphasis. "Are you saying that the Nelson project will cost less money to initiate?"
    4.Do not use words that might create a distance between you and the speaker. For example, do not use explosive, feeling words. Avoid placing blame. Instead, use feedback to help you understand what your speaker is trying to say even if they are saying something you may disagree with.
    Becoming the Best Listener you can means really making an effort to hear what the speaker is saying. It does not mean passive listening while multi-tasking. It is something we all can do.
    Rachel Naomi Remen said: "The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give to each other is our attention. . . A loving silence has more power to heal and connect than the most well-intended words."
    Find out How Well You Listen by taking this free assessment http://www.totalcommunicationscoach.com/how-good-a-listener-are-you.htm

    Listen To Your Life First if You Own a Business


    “At any moment, you have a choice, that either leads you closer to your spirit or further away from it.”

    Last summer my husband and I went away for our anniversary. We went to the White Mountains of New Hampshire for some camping and hiking. Mind you, my husband has hiked the Appalachian Trail and his idea of a hike is far different than my idea of a hike.
    He wanted to climb Moat Mountain, a two-mile climb with an elevation of 2800 feet. It was a ninety-degree day in August with about ninety percent humidity, otherwise a perfect day for a hike.
    What the heck I thought. Not my idea of a walk in the park, yet I wanted to be with him. Part of my intention for our anniversary weekend was to do things he liked to do. I began to climb. Very soon into the hike it was clear that I was not having a good time. I was exhausted and it was dangerously hot. He kept asking me if I wanted to turn back and I stubbornly continued.
    On and on I hiked. I told him he could go on ahead and I would take it slow. I crawled under bushes to catch any glimpse of shade I could find to catch my breath. I was determined to make it to the top to prove to him and myself I could do it. Big mistake. A quarter of a mile from the top my body would go no further. I limped my way down the mountain and wound up with heat stroke and spent the rest of our vacation recovering.
    What this powerful experience taught me is to listen. Listen to my inner wisdom; listen to the messages of my body and pay attention to what’s really happening. I knew there was no way I could make it up that mountain in ninety-degree heat and furthermore I really didn’t want to. I wanted to prove something and I disregarded my own inner wisdom.
    Have you ever wondered why you don’t listen?
    It is easy to get caught up in the frenzy and fullness of life and stop listening. How often do you push through a busy schedule, aware of the stress and ignore a message you get from you body? How many times have you heard the voice of your inner knowing clearly giving you a message that you don’t stop and listen to?
    Do you want to wait until you’re dangerously close to an edge before you listen? Here are some suggestions to help you exercise listening to your inner wisdom.
    1. Know yourself. What do you really want and need? Are you willing to stand up for your own life?
    2. Practice. Listening is like a muscle that needs strengthening. You can listen with more than just your ears; you can listen with your heart as well. Slow down, close you eyes for a minute. What do you hear or feel?
    3. Learn to trust your own inner voice. When you start trusting yourself you will experience more flow and fulfillment.
    4. Watch for the confirmations life sends you. This will help to reinforce the value of listening and encourage you to keep sharpening the skill. It’s also delightful to witness the amazing learning possible when you are listening.
    When I don’t listen it’s usually because there’s something I don’t want to hear. That day on the mountain I needed to ask myself a hard question, “why was I willing to risk my health or life to prove to my husband that I could do the things he liked to do?” It was because I didn’t want to feel left out. Yet, by NOT listening, I left myself out.
    When I listen my life flows more easily. I am guided toward the things that work for me as well as for others. I’m more honest and I’m more me.
    Now, when my husband asks me to hike with him, I am delighted to go or not, walk as far as I want and know we’re both having a better time because we are both following our heart.
    I’m listening now.
    It’s YOUR life…imagine the possibilities!
    http://www.selfgrowth.com/

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